You can plant the seeds of ideas, plans, and actions that you want to grow over the next few weeks until it grows into a bright and glorious full moon, which is the time for creativity and bringing those intentions to life. You can use that information to improve all aspects of your life.
Each month, the new moon appears in one of the 12 houses of astrology, influencing a different aspect of your life.
Here’s how to use each of the 12 “houses” of astrology and the magic of the new moon each month to improve your love life and make it amazing.
New moon in houses: effects on your life and relationships
1. New moon in the first house
The first house represents your personality, physical body and personal appearance. And since it is also the number one house, it is about taking on new projects and setting new goals. You may feel a burst of energy or be inspired to work on self-improvement or your self-image.
This would be a great month to try out a new look: how about a different haircut or getting lash extensions for the first time?
Enjoy a little self love. Maybe you can grab your sweetie to start a new exercise routine together… you’ll have a better chance of success if you have a partner to cheer you on.
Just be sure not to overdo it, as the high energy could be on the rise this month.
2. New moon in the second house
The second house is the house of “values,” both how you define your self-esteem and inner core values, and what you value in terms of your personal belongings and resources.
If you’ve been meaning to sit down and take a serious look at your finances, now is the time to do it. On a practical level, create a budget or come up with ways to supplement your income.
But what does that have to do with your love life? Money issues (along with sex and children) are one of the biggest stressors in a relationship, so this month is the perfect time to sync up your differing financial expectations with those of your partner.
They’ll save themselves some nasty blow-ups down the road and maybe find they really can afford an unexpected romantic getaway!
3. New moon in the third house
The third house is about how you think and use your brain, then how you communicate what you are thinking or have learned.
It also covers his relationship with his siblings and neighbors, as well as transportation problems. (There are several houses that cover more than one area of your life, while others have quite a singular focus, and this is one of them.)
You should try writing a love letter to your partner, or going out with them on a field trip to explore and talk (no screens or phones allowed).
If you’re not in a relationship, you might write a letter to your future lover, describing all the things you love about him or her. Take advantage of the extra mental activity right now and take a course on how to attract—or improve—a relationship.
4. New moon in the fourth house
Home and family are the focus of the fourth house where the emphasis is on comfort and domesticity. It’s also where you look to your past for clues about how your parents and childhood shaped you.
Self-reflection through meditation and journaling can be powerful tools to help release old baggage and practice forgiveness at any time, but they’re especially good this month.
Plan a day or a weekend to clear yourself. Clean out closets or garage to open up space for new energy to flow. This could even be a new relationship if you are looking for one!
Then fix your bedroom to make it cozier. If you are married, invite your parents and in-laws to a home feast and positively remember your childhood and that of your spouse.
5. New moon in the fifth house
The fifth house wants you to play and find romance! It governs relaxation, entertainment, and even gaming, if that’s your thing, as well as creative self-expression.
Any artistic or dramatic impulses you have are found in the fifth house. With the new moon here, you have complete permission to play and bring out your inner child.
The obvious activities this month would be plan lots of dates for movies, theater, and sporting events. Maybe an amusement park, an evening of drinking and painting (to get those creative juices flowing), or a trip to a casino?
Make it a romantic outing with your partner! Or, if you’re single, go with friends. Who knows who you might meet there?
6. New moon in the sixth house
The sixth house is one of those “everything but the kitchen sink” houses; is often called the “house of health”, but also represents your day job, your workplace and your co-workers.
is where you look how you serve others and they serve you. It also covers routines, habits, and even pets!
One of the best things you can do for yourself and your relationships this month is to renew your commitment to extreme self-care.
Remember, you cannot fully care for others unless you are nurturing yourself first. Set healthy boundaries, do a full-body cleanse, and establish new diet and exercise routines.
And make sure your work-life balance is solid, too.
7. New moon in the seventh house
Some houses have a super focused agenda, and the seventh house is one of them. It is about being in society and intimate relationships.
This is where you re-evaluate your personal needs and the needs of others; where you work through issues of individuality and intimacy.
That makes this month the quintessential time for love magic. Light a candle, play soft music, and create a little cocoon for some deep conversations about your relationship.
Are you and your partner on the same page when it comes to balancing your alone time and time with friends with your partner time?
If you are single, you may want to assess whether you have enough room in your life for a partner. If not, do it!
8. New moon in the eighth house
In astrology, the common phrase that describes the energies of the eighth house is “death, sex and taxes.”
Don’t worry, it’s usually not about people actually dying, but more about transformation and rebirth: identifying negative habits and letting them die so you can create new positive habits.
It’s also where he addresses shared resources: alimony, inheritance, and yes, taxes.
That deep exploration of intimacy you did last month when the new moon was in your 7th house? Now is the time to put all that into practice with great sex!
Then evaluate your joint assets and review your financial goals, as unattractive as that sounds (see second house). Intense emotions and power plays can also be triggered when the new moon passes through this house, so tread carefully.
9. New moon in the ninth house
The ninth house is where you seek meaning and examine your belief systems. The energy of this house is expansive and represents our views on religion, philosophy, and higher education.
It also governs the long-distance travel, foreigners and, oddly enough, your in-laws... maybe because they expand your family?
Take some time this month to reflect on ways you can bring your spirituality into everyday reality. If they are in a couple, perhaps the two of you can attend a spiritual retreat or a night of meditation.
If you’re single, who knows… maybe you’ll meet a kindred spirit there too! Literally expand your horizons. Take a trip together or alone, even figuratively, studying something new.
10. New moon in the tenth house
Your career, professional reputation, and social status are highlighted in the tenth house. His achievements and ambitions are also represented here, along with the need for recognition and concern for his public image.
Since this house is directly opposite the 4th house (representing home and family), when the new moon lands here, it’s another good time to consider your work-life balance.
It’s always a good exercise to do periodically to make sure your most important relationships aren’t suffering as well.
11. New moon in the eleventh house
The eleventh house covers your friends and acquaintances, as well as your group affiliations and humanitarian interests.
It’s a pretty socially oriented house, but it also addresses your goals and expectations. Like many other houses, it is a bit mixed.
One obvious thing to do this month is go to town with your significant other and a group of friends! And of course, if you’re single, grab some friends and go to your favorite nightclub or karaoke bar.
Or, to capitalize on the caring vibe, find a worthy project to get involved in: My brother met his wife building a playground for a volunteer organization!
12. New moon in the twelfth house
When you enter the twelfth house, you dive into the subconscious mind; the world of dreams and what is hidden or unseen.
Governs places of confinement, such as hospitals, mental institutions, and prisons… but also monasteries, ashrams and spiritual retreat centers.
So go hibernate with your favorite monk and explore your fears, desires and dreams deepers, either on your own or through a curation program.
This month would also be a good time to start couples therapy or see what self-limiting beliefs prevent you from attracting your soulmate. Don’t be afraid to dig deeper!
Whether you’re an avid astrology fan or a hobbyist, it’s fun to combine some of the ideas found in the astrology houses of your birth chart with the current movements of the moon and see how they can enrich your life and relationships. .
How the new moon affects your life and YOUR RELATIONSHIPS in each house of astrology